Dating guarded people

14-Mar-2016 23:38

Having a guarded heart makes getting close to someone quite the struggle.In fact, opening up is a step by step process for us and dating is no exception. Any time he or she makes the effort to be transparent with you, make sure you convey how much you appreciate it.

When everyone is talking about more personal subjects they're good at hanging back and not contributing, changing the subject, taking the attention off them, giving vague, evasive answers, or deciding now's the right time to get up and see what everyone else at the party is doing.If you have a secret no one may think it's a big deal if they found out what it was, but they'll form a poor impression of you if you're always closed-off and cagey.Their imagination may run wild and they'll assume something worse about you than what you're actually hiding.Here’s what guys should know about dating the guarded girl: Her walls are fierce.If at first she comes across emotionless or cold, don’t assume the worst.

When everyone is talking about more personal subjects they're good at hanging back and not contributing, changing the subject, taking the attention off them, giving vague, evasive answers, or deciding now's the right time to get up and see what everyone else at the party is doing.

If you have a secret no one may think it's a big deal if they found out what it was, but they'll form a poor impression of you if you're always closed-off and cagey.

Their imagination may run wild and they'll assume something worse about you than what you're actually hiding.

Here’s what guys should know about dating the guarded girl: Her walls are fierce.

If at first she comes across emotionless or cold, don’t assume the worst.

If a person’s childhood “prototype” relationship set an expectation of security and comfort, they will expect the same from their romantic relationships later in life.