Dating dont want kids

04-Feb-2016 22:49

I'm childfree myself and I'm active on a couple of childfree forums.I read horrible stories all the time from the childfree people who are single and dating — strangers telling you that you'll change your mind, single parents insisting that their kids are different and you'll love them, etc. I guess as a random personal introduction, I'm Adam. My hobbies are primarily reading, writing, computers, cars, and target shooting.And I told him so right away – even though he was a few years younger than me.Now, common wisdom tells you that you should never do such a thing; that letting a man know something like this is akin to having an agenda and will send him running.Please register to participate in our discussions with 2 million other members - it's free and quick! I'm looking for someone who doesn't have or want kids and I'm having a terrible time finding someone. My problem is that it seems like it's almost impossible to find women who don't have AND don't want kids (and who don't smoke, but that's another problem).

So, even though you want children, your life does not depend on it – and it certainly doesn’t depend on him.

Just keep on posting on the dating sites, being really clear and upfront with the "no kids" requirement and you'll eventually come across a few women who want what you want.

They are not in the majority, but they are out there. It's like throwing a hundred darts at a dart board - ONE of them will eventually hit the bulls eye What have you done outside of dating sites to meet women?

After you create your account, you'll be able to customize options and access all our 15,000 new posts/day with fewer ads. I can supply more details (within reason), but I'll say that although I like kids and teach them, I do not want any of my own. I've been on Match, OKCupid, Plenty of Fish, Zoosk and even a few childfree dating websites that look like they haven't been updated in years. So I'm throwing it out for any realistic suggestions the message board might have.

I enjoy a quiet and chaos free home life and I love being able to go out to concerts, plays/musicals, movies, etc. I can supply more details (within reason), but I'll say that although I like kids and teach them, I do not want any of my own.

So, even though you want children, your life does not depend on it – and it certainly doesn’t depend on him.

Just keep on posting on the dating sites, being really clear and upfront with the "no kids" requirement and you'll eventually come across a few women who want what you want.

They are not in the majority, but they are out there. It's like throwing a hundred darts at a dart board - ONE of them will eventually hit the bulls eye What have you done outside of dating sites to meet women?

After you create your account, you'll be able to customize options and access all our 15,000 new posts/day with fewer ads. I can supply more details (within reason), but I'll say that although I like kids and teach them, I do not want any of my own. I've been on Match, OKCupid, Plenty of Fish, Zoosk and even a few childfree dating websites that look like they haven't been updated in years. So I'm throwing it out for any realistic suggestions the message board might have.

I enjoy a quiet and chaos free home life and I love being able to go out to concerts, plays/musicals, movies, etc. I can supply more details (within reason), but I'll say that although I like kids and teach them, I do not want any of my own.

You are complete just as you are, and your first priority is you.