Dating and relationship advice for gay men

08-Jan-2017 03:33

Why do spread rumours, leave hurtful messages on social media and ostracise others from within our own community?The simple answer is insecurity and what is insecurity? When we see people doing something for which we negatively judge them it’s because it stirs something within ourselves that we do not like.Browse these 26 different relationships gay men can have while keeping an open mind and heart, and remember that love (and lust) is waiting for when you least expect it. As with everything I write, the intent of this piece is to break down the stigmas surrounding the sex lives of gay men.Those who are sensitive regarding frank discussions about sex are invited to click elsewhere, but consider this: If you are outraged by content that addresses sex openly and honestly, I invite you to examine this outrage and ask yourself whether it should instead be directed at those who oppress us by policing our sexuality. And feel free to leave your own suggestions for sex and dating topics in the comments. Follow me on Twitter @Bad Alex Cheves and visit my blog, The Beastly Ex-Boyfriend.Want to find a relationship or keep the gay love you have?

To all my gay compatriots living in the closet, I urge you to come out and join us. It is not without hardships, but I can resolutely say that being gay is the greatest gift I have been given. I was tasked with writing a slideshow detailing all the different relationships gay men can have. Our community could benefit from a stronger spirit of inclusivity and unity, especially when so many opinions, both inside and outside our demographic, rage as to what the future of gay life looks like. I could live without circuit fashion and occasional bitchiness and insane body standards, but I could not imagine my life without the friends, boyfriends, and lovers who have taken care of me, shown me love, and fucked me senseless. Some — like the ones I have hooked up with — are extremely sexy.Just to be clear, this slideshow is not exclusively catered to white, able-bodied, cisgender gay men. Gay men come in all sizes, shapes, skin colors, and ethnic backgrounds, and you could have any of these relationships with all of them.Why do we look at the success of other gay men and find reasons to justify why they’re not deserving of it?Why do we make fun of fellow gay men who are different from us just for being themselves?

To all my gay compatriots living in the closet, I urge you to come out and join us. It is not without hardships, but I can resolutely say that being gay is the greatest gift I have been given. I was tasked with writing a slideshow detailing all the different relationships gay men can have. Our community could benefit from a stronger spirit of inclusivity and unity, especially when so many opinions, both inside and outside our demographic, rage as to what the future of gay life looks like. I could live without circuit fashion and occasional bitchiness and insane body standards, but I could not imagine my life without the friends, boyfriends, and lovers who have taken care of me, shown me love, and fucked me senseless. Some — like the ones I have hooked up with — are extremely sexy.Just to be clear, this slideshow is not exclusively catered to white, able-bodied, cisgender gay men. Gay men come in all sizes, shapes, skin colors, and ethnic backgrounds, and you could have any of these relationships with all of them.Why do we look at the success of other gay men and find reasons to justify why they’re not deserving of it?Why do we make fun of fellow gay men who are different from us just for being themselves?They hang in there, tackle problems, and learn how to work through the complex issues of everyday life.