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17-Jun-2016 03:58

The Summer Set loves us like mad you guys — they just sent us the behind-the-scenes vid for their music video “Missin’ You”!

The band — John Gomez, Brian Dales, Jess Bowen, Stephen Gomez, and Josh Montgomery — unveiled the official video last month, ahead of their upcoming album, which is just weeks away from being released.

When the director of my documentary on marriage asked me which of my ex-boyfriends I would like to interview on camera, I told him, "We're going to have to hire an actor." I'm not friends with any of my exes, and I've never understood the appeal.

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“Contrary to that, it’s about getting over your ex.Peter seemed surprisingly open to the idea but needed reassurance that I wasn't going to make fun of him on camera—a theme, for some reason, that keeps reintroducing itself into my romantic relationships. It's supremely awkward seeing someone you used to have a lot of sex with for the first time in almost two decades.It's embarrassing sitting three feet away from your ex, trying to discern whether he's wondering how badly you've aged—or, more specifically, if you look fatter than you did at 23. He told me that I was a menace—that I would drink more than him and his friends combined, and then get up at 7 a.m. He said that I was opinionated and loved a good fight, and that I could get anyone to open up. And just as easily, it can spontaneously degenerate when the magic "just isn't there" anymore. Love is the attachment that results from deeply appreciating another's goodness. After all, most love stories don't feature a couple enraptured with each other's ethics. God created us to see ourselves as good (hence our need to either rationalize or regret our wrongdoings). Nice looks, an engaging personality, intelligence, and talent (all of which count for something) may attract you, but goodness is what moves you to love. Just focus on the good in another person (and everyone has some). I was once at an intimate concert in which the performer, a deeply spiritual person, gazed warmly at his audience and said, "I want you to know, I love you all." I smiled tolerantly and thought, "Sure." Looking back, though, I realize my cynicism was misplaced. Erich Fromm, in his famous treatise "The Art of Loving," noted the sad consequence of this misconception: "There is hardly any activity, any enterprise, which is started with such tremendous hopes and expectations, and yet, which fails so regularly, as love." (That was back in 1956 ― chances are he'd be even more pessimistic today.) So what is love ― real, lasting love? What we value most in ourselves, we value most in others.

“Contrary to that, it’s about getting over your ex.

Peter seemed surprisingly open to the idea but needed reassurance that I wasn't going to make fun of him on camera—a theme, for some reason, that keeps reintroducing itself into my romantic relationships. It's supremely awkward seeing someone you used to have a lot of sex with for the first time in almost two decades.

It's embarrassing sitting three feet away from your ex, trying to discern whether he's wondering how badly you've aged—or, more specifically, if you look fatter than you did at 23. He told me that I was a menace—that I would drink more than him and his friends combined, and then get up at 7 a.m. He said that I was opinionated and loved a good fight, and that I could get anyone to open up.

And just as easily, it can spontaneously degenerate when the magic "just isn't there" anymore. Love is the attachment that results from deeply appreciating another's goodness. After all, most love stories don't feature a couple enraptured with each other's ethics. God created us to see ourselves as good (hence our need to either rationalize or regret our wrongdoings). Nice looks, an engaging personality, intelligence, and talent (all of which count for something) may attract you, but goodness is what moves you to love. Just focus on the good in another person (and everyone has some). I was once at an intimate concert in which the performer, a deeply spiritual person, gazed warmly at his audience and said, "I want you to know, I love you all." I smiled tolerantly and thought, "Sure." Looking back, though, I realize my cynicism was misplaced.

Erich Fromm, in his famous treatise "The Art of Loving," noted the sad consequence of this misconception: "There is hardly any activity, any enterprise, which is started with such tremendous hopes and expectations, and yet, which fails so regularly, as love." (That was back in 1956 ― chances are he'd be even more pessimistic today.) So what is love ― real, lasting love? What we value most in ourselves, we value most in others.

This doesn’t mean that the love is unworthy or less special.